Love, What is Love? Is it just a feeling? No, It is lot more than a feeling. It is so vastly different. We experience different kinds of love, sibling love, the love we feel for our parents, friends or any person. When you say you love someone, it is because you love the way you are with them. It is not the idea of ‘Him’ or ‘Her’ that pleases you, it is the idea of ‘WE’. Every individual has a different perspective about love. You love a person differently not for what they feel about you but for what you feel about them. True love is something totally different. Some people may contradict it but, it does not happen overnight. It takes a long time, and it is those petite things and gestures that eventually result into love.
Psychology says, Love is as critical for your mind and body as oxygen. It’s not
negotiable. The more connected you are, the healthier you will be both
physically and emotionally. Love is probably the best antidepressant.
LOVE-As simple as the word spells, it is not that easy to maintain it. Love comes with fights, betrayal anger and jealous. it is easy to hate, it takes strength to be gentle and kind. To keep the love going in a relation, needs a lot time, effort, patience, tolerance, healthy communication, understanding and most importantly Trust.
There are always core differences between two people, no matter how
good or close you are, and if the relationship is going right those
differences surface. The issue then is to identify the differences and
negotiate them so that they don’t distance you or kill the
relationship.
When teenagers fall in love, what have they fallen into? The answer is: into a depth of caring more complex and compelling than they have known before. Nowadays, for the teenagers love has become more of a trend. It is a matter of pride for them to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. It is more of a temporary attraction which is mistaken for true love. Very few teens, who are mature enough, understand what actually love is. Some teens get into a relationship just for intimacy which is commonly termed as ‘use and throw’ and this the harsh truth.
Whatever said and done, for us humans as social creatures, we need Love and we tend to love. Love is the closest thing to magic that we can experience and so we should. Do the universe a favor, show them your magic. Spread love everywhere you go.
