Gosh… He is just too cool! Hasn’t the need to look cool been a sought after fad since a long time? So many guys (and even some girls) want to be seen as someone totally cool. Of course there’s nothing wrong if you want to be known as a cool person. Whatever your wish be, just aim in the right way and you can be that. So read on to ponder over some thoughts on how to really be a cool one.
- Just being easy:
Learning to be an easy person means a lot of things. The first and foremost is being easy with yourself. Once you become easy and relaxed with yourself, you automatically start to perceive others easily. Now that is something that makes you a cool person. Why? By being too wound up or uptight about something or towards someone, one may be seen as stoic and difficult to get along with. But someone who accepts self and then others as they are, appears relaxed, non-threatening and finally easy to get along with. Now that’s something that can make you cool.
- Listening more and talking less:
Picture a cool guy in your mind. What is the idea of the image that comes to you? ‘Someone absolutely relaxed, stylish and also with an inner confidence.’ All these traits reflect something specific – Sureness. Being sure about your style, your behavior makes you look confident. This kind of person often means what he says and speaks only when required. Now ain’t that cool? With a habit of listening more and talking less, people start to listen whenever you speak, because you will only speak when required to. So a simple habit of just listening more helps you become someone sure about himself and someone who speaks only what’s important.
- Being helpful:
A person who is willing to help others when need be is definitely someone who will become important. A person who offers help even when it’s hard is someone who makes sacrifice seem easy, like it’s some routine affair. So anybody who believes in being helpful will certainly be looked upon as some guy who cares about people but doesn’t take himself too seriously is obviously cool.
- Being Unique:
Someone who makes it a point to just be himself and cares about carrying himself in a unique way will obviously be looked upon as a distinct individual and will surely stand out from the crowd. This person will then have a distinct personality and traits that will keep presenting him the opportunities reflect his uniqueness.
- Being self-dependent:
By not being too eager to show off or too eager to prove self before someone will make others notice your strength. If one is self-dependent in almost every aspect, the former traits come easily. Plus, one becomes focused, happy and content and once again – cool.
Basically, cool means some system (thing or a person) with reduced heat. So a cool object (or even person) will be someone that has the property to maintain its coolness in any place or at any time. This simply means that a cool person is expected to be relaxed and not easily angered, doesn’t try hard to show off and doesn’t crave any attention. So just by being yourself, self-dependent, easy and helpful, one can automatically transform himself or herself into a ‘cool dude’.